THOUGHTS ON WRITING
JOY & BADASSERY

Just a little reframe

Hey lovelies I’m working super hard on emotional regulation at the moment (aka holding my shit together in healthy ways - more about that in my upcoming tour). And so I wanted to share with you just a little reframe that’s helping me right now: I get to or I have to?...

Managing expectations

"But they won't let me write like that" Ok, amazing humans who write shit at work: I have advice. Because one of the things I hear in my trainings, from people who are 100% on board with what I’m teaching them about good clear writing, is this: They’re worried that...

How to advocate for yourself by email

I won a huge battle last year for my daughter. HUGE. Like, $300k+ PER YEAR kind of huge. Almost entirely by email. So here's my advice for how to advocate for yourself (and whānau, friends, employees, all the good humans who need your support) by email. Before you...

Whose problem is that?

Spoiler alert – not mine. Because, whose problem is that? Beeaaatch - that sounds like a you problem and not a me problem. First of all, credit where it’s due – my friend Tracy Hemingway said these words to me in conversation recently, and I just stole them. If you...

Advice to my children

On New Year’s Day 2017, I wrote advice to my children. Four years later I decided to sit down and do it again – a bit of an experiment to see how my advice had changed over 4 years. As it turns out? A lot. The advice I gave them in 2017 remained true but it was...

Surviving or thriving?

What are your best indicators of wellness? I've realised that one of my best indicators of well-being is the condition of my plants. After decades of motherhood, almost all of them while grieving, depressed, in a bad marriage or just plain lonely, I probably attempted...

The work-life balance bullshit

So I've been running my business for almost a decade. It's been a riiiiiiiiiide, let me tell you! It's been a ride I've adored, and so I've heard myself say, many times, that I don't buy into that work-life balance bullshit. Why? Because if you LOVE what you do, it...

How’s your timing?

Oh heeeey you! I've actually had a couple of people checking on me to see if I'm ok because I went off-grid and then it seems like I just never came back. Ooops. My bad. But also, my good. Cos I'm great. I'm astoundingly wonderful. Even though 2021 seems to be...

Tribe vibes

The gift of giving yourself a tribe My friend Cheryl Stephens tagged me in this image recently.  Me and my ninja (Mandy Smiler) nearly die­­d laughing, because #truth 🤷🏼‍♀️ Cheryl is part of our tribe. Cheryl knows me well. And you know how many times Cheryl and...

Two car seats on my back seat

There are two car seats on my back seat. My youngest child is 16 now, and here I find myself with 2 toddler car seats on the backseat of my car. My beautiful, late model Mazda CX-5 that I bought for myself BRAND NEW because I could. And because I deserved it. My...
Managing expectations

Managing expectations

"But they won't let me write like that" Ok, amazing humans who write shit at work: I have advice. Because one of the things I hear in my trainings, from people who are 100% on board with what I’m teaching them about good clear writing, is this: They’re worried that...

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How to advocate for yourself by email

How to advocate for yourself by email

I won a huge battle last year for my daughter. HUGE. Like, $300k+ PER YEAR kind of huge. Almost entirely by email. So here's my advice for how to advocate for yourself (and whānau, friends, employees, all the good humans who need your support) by email. Before you...

read more
Whose problem is that?

Whose problem is that?

Spoiler alert – not mine. Because, whose problem is that? Beeaaatch - that sounds like a you problem and not a me problem. First of all, credit where it’s due – my friend Tracy Hemingway said these words to me in conversation recently, and I just stole them. If you...

read more

podcasts

In the past, money meant stress and fear.  Now it means freedom and choices - Shelly Davies

Knowing yourself is power

Absolutely Not is a live podcast series dedicated to providing examples of setting personal boundaries at work. Special guests are interviewed about their experiences and what they have learned when having set boundaries. The show hopes to encourage all professionals to say “Absolutely Not” to abuse, mistreatment and unsafe work environments.

In this episode, Shelly and Katrina talk about the power of boundaries and loving self. As usual – Not to be missed!

In the past, money meant stress and fear.  Now it means freedom and choices - Shelly Davies

Get cosy and comfortable with your money (July, 2020)

Shelly joins Money Mentalist Lynda Moore in her new fireside chat series, to get real about our relationship with money.  As women in business, we can have challenges around valuing ourselves and charging our worth.  If you’re looking for some clarity around the choices you make with your dollar bills, listen in!

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Profit First by Mike Michalowicz (July, 2020)

Shelly joins Identify Marketing expert Rachel Klaver to discuss this book and Mike’s money management system for small business owners.  Together they share what it is, how it works, and why it’s a great choice for you!  As they share the amazing wins they’ve had implementing his processes, you’ll learn that making a profit and paying bills and taxes on time is actually possible!

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How bad emails stop you from getting things done (June, 2020)

Shelly joins Visible Thread CEO Evelyn Wolf in her Modern Workplace Woes series, to talk email communication.  Learn how empathy and plain language can remove your email pain.  Learn the value of focusing on the needs of your reader and walk away knowing how to write better emails that will get things done!

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How to kick-ass with a powerful, personal brand (June, 2020)

Shelly joins the stellar team at Blue Sky Recruitment to get real about what a truly authentic brand can do!  Are you doing YOU?  Bravely?  Unapologetically?  Are you courageous enough to be fully transparent with the world?

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Cutting through the bullshit on The Hits Drive (May, 2020)

Shelly joins the awesome crew @TheHitsDrive,  Stace, Mike and Anika for a quick chat about the benefits of speaking and writing in our simplest form.  Because when we cut through the bullshit (#corporatewankspeak) with #plainlanguage we build trust!  We put the ‘human’ back into our comms!

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Love, empathy and badassery with The On Purpose Podcast (May, 2020)

Shelly joins Ali and Jerrod in a lockdown bubble convo between Denver, COL and NZ as they discuss living life with purpose through her badassery lens. Shelly shares her journey of self-discovery, acceptance and love, and her mission to help others find their JOY!

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Pūkauae with Putaanga Waitoa (April, 2020)

A korero on being your authentic self while smashing misconceptions.  Learning to stand in YOUR truth, being a strong wahine in business and the tensions in serving the kaupapa.  Where do the “prerequisites” for moko kauae come from, and why do we use them as weapons?  We also dive into racism, acknowledging that it is alive when wāhine mau Moko and what it is to be challenged as a fair wahine.

You need to hear her roar with Time To Identify-Rachel Klaver (Nov 29, 2019)

Learn how to in how to communicate like a real person (instead of creating emails using corporate-speak!).  Superstar trainer,  ambassador in badassery, motivational powerhouse and straight shooter from way back – Shelly Davies is so worth listening to! Her story of her coming to understand her own power, and standing in her own truth is incredibly inspiring.

Shelly joins Kiwi Talkz to chat Writing, Joy & Badassery

Reece Reilly spoke with Writing and Communications Trainer Shelly Davies about how to improve your writing and training as well as other topics such as Maori, Profanity, Racism and more. This long-form video podcast will take you on a real journey!

Rich or Good? Burning the Bullshit with Caroline Herfurth (March 11, 2019)

The bullsh*t belief — “You can be either rich or a good person, but not both”  negatively impacted how much Shelly Davies charged for her services. And led to shortchanging herself to the tune of thousands of dollars each day.

Add that up over time and… well… you can do the math.

Good Shit I've learned with The Artful Chiropractor (October 17, 2018)

Shelly Davies is living a dream she didn’t know she had – helping people live more fully, more authentically, and more in their truth.  She does this with a lot of laughs, her new traditional Māori chin tattoo, and a fair amount of curse words sprinkled liberally through everything she does, even her website.  Shelly’s story is one of loving self through dead husbands, depression, obesity, single parenting, running an #accidentallyawesome business, and even, much to her equal dismay and delight, grandparenting. 

Stories of Courage and Self Care with Christina Marlett (July 4, 2018)

Tune into this episode of the Courageous Self-Care Podcast to hear Shelly Davies’ powerful story of parenting, overcoming shame and authenticity. 

Learning from Children with Bettina Tornatora (May 23, 2018)

An honest account of the pain and self doubt that parenting can bring. Listen to Shelly talk about the perfect recipe for disaster that she experienced as a mother. Profound and vulnerable sharing in this podcast.

Passive Aggressive Punctuation with The Content Wrangler (July 20, 2017)

You know all those “rules” you were taught in school about “good writing?” They were lies. Our focus today needs to go beyond grammar and punctuation, and towards clarity and understanding. What works for real people? And what really ARE the rules?

Want me on your podcast?

(I’ve got SO MUCH to say!) 

Boy do I have stories to tell. Yes, I’ve run a fucking amazing business for 7 years now, and YES I want other people to feel THIS POWERFUL in their own universe. I can talk business. Money. Marketing. Brand. Authenticity. Vulnerability. Courage. Someone might have suggested I’m New Zealand’s Brene Brown *blush*. I can talk parenting, divorce, dead husbands, depression, obesity and weight loss surgery, family court, addictions, SERIOUS mental health.

I mean fuck. I’ve lived. What can I say? You don’t become a joyful badass rockstar through a boring, not-much-happened kinda life. So let’s talk. 

 

What people say

  • I found Shelly's course really helpful. The content and presentation is clear and insightful, and I am using the things I picked all the time in my day to day work.

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    Stuart Crosswell
    6/21/2021
  • We love Shelly! When looking for someone to help our company with our writing and communication skills, Shelly was recommended multiple times. We put our entire team through her coaching and we are now signing all our new starters up for her online Email Communications course to ensure everyone is communicating in the same consistent, clear and well structured way. She's great - highly recommended!

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    Liz Knight
    6/21/2021
  • Shelly Davies rocks your socks off.

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    Kawarau Ngaia
    6/19/2021
  • A day with Shelly is a day well spent

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    Scott Ebbett
    6/19/2021
  • Awesome and practical training, which left me with tools that I could apply immediately. Less waffle here I come!

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    Paul Evans
    6/19/2021
  • Extremely useful skills for day-to-day business writing. Can see marked improvement in efficiency already - in both my own work and that of others in the course. Hilarious presentation style that got everyone involved.

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    Hannah Liddell
    6/19/2021
  • Shelly is great. She makes the content interesting, easy to understand, and easy to put in to practice. Plain English is her thing!

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    Tania Nutira
    6/19/2021
  • Shelly’s style of teaching is like finding that book you’ve been waiting ages to read. You finally get it, read it, front to back and back again then BAM, can't wait for the sequel. Nga mini uni Shelly😉

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    Ferinica Foreman
    6/19/2021
  • Shelly is awesome at what she does and makes learning fun.

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    Aaron Botherway
    5/19/2021
  • Very engaging and interactive training. Learnt some very practical and handy tips for writing emails and reports. Recommended!

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    Atefeh P
    1/19/2021